Saturday, January 26, 2013

Jesus and Mary

Hey everyone -

So, when I wrote the sermon on John 2 (Jesus turning water into wine), there was a topic I found fascinating, but didn't have time to get to in the sermon.  If reading the exchange in this passage between Jesus and his mother made you go "huh?" you might want to read on...


There’s been a lot of discussion over the years about what exactly Mary was trying to do by bringing this situation (the wedding hosts running out of wine) to Jesus.  I think I grew up kind of assuming she was trying to get Jesus to use one of his “superpowers” to rescue this family from embarrassment the way Spider-Man might use his web to nab the bad guy, or Superman might use his super strength to keep a building from crushing a little boy.

But I agree with the commentators I’ve read over the last couple of weeks that say that Mary wasn’t so much demanding a miracle from Jesus as she was just humbly bringing her concerns to him to see what he would say or do.

Over the years, she had found Jesus to be the wisest, most resourceful, most trustworthy person she knew.  She had learned to rely on him, so when a problem came up, it was the most natural thing in the world for her to ask him about it.

I want to pause for just a minute and ask – is that your standard practice?  When you come upon situations where you have difficulty or questions, is it your natural response to go to Jesus?  Or is your first instinct to rely on your own resources?

I know my “default mode” tends to be to rely on my own resources, forgetting that those very resources came from God in the first place, and there is infinitely more where that came from!  One of the passages that has really meant a lot to me over the last few years is Jeremiah 17:5-8.  I think it speaks powerfully to this issue:

This is what the Lord says:

“Cursed is the one who trusts in man, who depends on flesh for his
strength
and whose heart turns away from the Lord.
He will be like a bush in the wastelands;
he will not see prosperity
when it comes.
He will dwell in the parched places of the desert, 
in a salt land where no one lives.

“But blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord,
whose confidence
is in him.  He will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out
its roots by the stream.
It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves
are always green.
It has no worries in a year of drought
and never
fails to bear fruit.”

May we be more like Mary – bringing every situation to Jesus and trusting him to know what is best.


So… when Mary brings her concern to Jesus, he gives this cryptic reply:  he says “Why do you involve me?”  Or literally, “What is this to you and me?  My time has not yet come.” 

This almost sounds cold, or rude.  And we want to say, “Jesus, that doesn’t sound very nice!”  But I don’t think Jesus is being rude or disrespectful.  I believe what Jesus is doing here is making it clear that his agenda won’t be set by Mary, or by his disciples, but his agenda will be set by God alone.

It reminds me of the story Rich preached on a few weeks ago.  Do you remember?  12 year old Jesus is with his family celebrating the Passover in Jerusalem, and when they leave to go back home, Jesus stays at the Temple.  His parents can’t find him for three days and when they finally do, they say “Why have you done this to us?!?”

And Jesus replies – “didn’t you know I must be in my Father’s house?” All along, Jesus has been telling his family, his disciples, and us that his agenda was not driven by man, but by God.   May the same be said of us!

John

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